How to Apologize for the Delayed Return of a Borrowed Item

You can't keep it, bro.

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• Maybe it was a book, a pair of earrings, or a lawnmower - whatever it was, you have it and they want it back.

• Even if it is years later, it is never too late to give something back and apologize for the delay - it’s the right thing to do.

• Still, giving something back and apologizing for taking so long isn’t easy. The most important thing is to acknowledge the mistake and apologize for it.

• Here’s a good recipe for an apology in this case:

  • Acknowledge the Oversight

  • Express Your Gratitude

  • Offer a Genuine Apology

  • Explain Without Excuses

  • Commit to Returning the Item

  • Offer to Make Amends

  • Affirm the Value of Your Relationship

  • Close with a Positive Outlook

Talking Points

• I’m sorry for not getting your <item> back to you sooner.

• I’m so sorry I’m only just now giving back your <item>.

• Please accept my deepest apologies for my delay in returning it. It was so <fun, helpful, perfect>, but I didn’t intend to keep it!

• If there is any way I can make it up to you, please let me know!

• I realize I've held onto your [item] longer than we agreed upon, and I'm truly sorry for any inconvenience this may have caused you.

• Thank you for being understanding and patient with me during this time. Your generosity in lending me [item] is something I deeply appreciate.

• I apologize for not returning [item] as promptly as I should have. It was not my intention to keep it for so long, and I understand if this has been frustrating for you.

• Due to <brief explanation>, I could not return [item] on time. I should have communicated this to you sooner, and I regret not doing so.

• I'm making it a priority to return [item] to you. I can do so by <specific date or time>, and I'll ensure it's in the same condition as when I borrowed it.

• If there's any way I can make up for the delay, please let me know. Whether it's covering any inconvenience or something else, I'm open to your suggestions.

• Our relationship means a lot to me, and I hope to move past this oversight. I'm committed to being more mindful and respectful of your kindness in the future.

• I'm looking forward to resolving this matter and continuing to build on our relationship. Thank you again for your understanding and patience.