How to Give Sympathy for the Loss of a Pet
I'm so sorry for the loss of your loyal furry friend.
“Not the least hard thing to bear when they go from us, these quiet friends, is that they carry away with them so many years of our own lives.”
– John Galsworthy
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Losing a pet can hurt as much (and in some cases, more) as losing a human loved one.
Even if you’re not a pet lover (and maybe especially if you’re not one), use these talking points to give comfort.
Talking Points
The passing of a pet is like losing a member of the family.
May memories of happy times console you during this time.
May the happy memories of your pet ease the pain of his/her loss.
A pet is always an important part of the family and your loss is felt deeply by all.
I know how much <name of pet> meant to you. He/she was such a wonderful <type of animal>. He/She was so incredibly loved and well cared for. He/she was lucky to have you.
I know there’s nothing anyone can say or do to lessen the hurt in your heart right now. The love and connection we have our <dogs/cats> is such a unique bond that I think you have to experience it to understand it.
<Name> will be in your heart forever and he/she knows you love him/her.
Let me know if you need anything.
Pets may leave this world, but they never leave our hearts. The bond you shared with <name of pet> was special, and that love will remain with you forever.
It’s hard to imagine life without a loyal companion like <name of pet>. Grieving takes time, and it’s okay to feel this loss deeply.
<Name of pet> brought so much joy into your life. I hope that remembering those moments will bring a little peace to your heart.
I’m here for you during this tough time. If you ever want to talk or share a memory, I’m just a call away.
Losing a pet is losing a companion who offered unconditional love and unwavering loyalty. Take the time you need to grieve and heal.
<Name of pet> was more than just a pet—they were a true friend who will be missed dearly. It’s okay to feel the loss as deeply as you would for any loved one.
There’s no rush to move on. Take the time to honor <name of pet> in your own way, whether through memories, photos, or rituals that bring you comfort.
Further Reading
HelpGuide.org: How to Cope with the Loss of a Pet
Cleveland Clinic: How to Grieve the Death of a Pet